Le persone vengono nella tua vita per una ragione

Oggi 8 dicembre la mia amica Julia è tornata a casa sua, in Germania.
Devo dire che la cosa mi ha reso immensamente triste perché dopo che Mapu è dovuta andarsene a causa della sua orribile famiglia, oggi ho “perso” un’altra cara amica, che purtroppo ha avuto, anche lei, la sciagura di incontrare una famiglia di psicopatici stronzi. Mapu ha sempre detto, con ragione, che non è facile trovare buoni amici, sopratutto durante la tua esperienza come au pair, visto che per molteplici ragioni non puoi stare a selezionare più di tanto, ma io penso che con lei avessi trovato davvero un’ottima amica, cosa che contribuito a rendere la sua partenza ancora più triste.10615445_903824999637374_6083683699195218265_n
Vi chiederete cosa c’entra il titolo con questo, beh anche se il tempo trascorso con lei è stato di solo un paio di mesi ho vissuto tante belle esperienze, ampliato le mie conoscenze e distrutto molti stereotipi (che è la cosa che più amo di questo cultural exchange).
Ho deciso di scrivere un’ultima lettera a Julia per salutarla e raccontarvi quante cose ho imparato.

I remember the first time you decided to email me. I thought you were so brave to text a girl, whose email was in a list on a web site. In that email you told me that you were new in the area and you wanted to meet you new people. I took the chance and i replied. After some email we shared our phone numbers and here everything started. You asked me to meet once to know each other and so I came to your house. It was so weird at the beginning because there was not to much to talk about, but after that meeting you, luckly, didn’t give up. You asked me to meet for a lunch together and that was our first time we went in that who, later become, OUR mall.Aerial1
During our first meeting you asked me to schedule a day in which, every week, we could have lunch together and that day was Thursday. I’ll have to admit that at the beginning I was kinda bored to drive so far for a lunch (I am also lazy and sometimes I just need an input), but I am glad that you asked me “to schedule this tradition” because, after like 3 lunches, I was so happy to meet you because there were always a lot to talk about and we were getting along very much.

I always thought Germans are not too friendly, and if they can, they prefer spend time with other Germans rather than foreign people.
But you are different, you are one of the most nice and friendly people ever and you proved that there are Germans who like enjoy other cultures.
I always thought Germans were too strict to rules and that for them is hard having fun. I still remember the first party with you. Halloween! You surprised everybody! You were talking, playing games, drinking and dancing with no fear! Since that day you became such a good partner to having fun with!1502215_886952394657968_6168257629249969161_o
Also Germans au pairs have the bad reputation to be so rude when they are together because they only speak German. You never did this because you understood how awful it is, so being with you was always a pleasure because I never felt excluded.
All this, luckly, prove that not all the Germans deserve the bad reputation that often follow them. Now I can proudly say: that’s not always true!

And this is not the end! Gossiping with you, and lay down on the couch watching crapy tv shows was so much fun. BridalplastyI thought I would have never found such a good partner after my best friend left, but well, I did.
I would also never forget the stories you told me about your city and German traditions:
The pickle hidden in the Christmas tree, the fish at 5,00am that you can find at the harbor in hamburg, the Christmas kindle…

It is such a pity that you had to leave for this assholes.
Now I miss our Thursdays lunch, our meeting in Hazleton, partying together, complain about shows, gossiping… so everything! I am sure that we could have had other amazing experiences and I could have learnt more about Germans and Germany…

So thank you to have been part of my experience as an au pair and have been just you! Everything was awesome!

I will keep texting you and I am still hoping to win the Christmas kindle we made in dc! We’ll meet again! That’s a promise!

Your Au Pair
Susa

2 pensieri su “Le persone vengono nella tua vita per una ragione

  1. Agnes Frazzetto ha detto:

    E’ proprio vero.. Ormai quando si parla di tedeschi pensiamo subito che siano antipatici e freddi.. Ovviamente ci sono sempre le eccezioni, come ad esempio non tutti gli italiani siamo solari e amichevoli!! Comunque Susa mi dispiace davvero tanto per te però non ti devi abbattere, sono sicura che troverai un’altra ragazza con cui legherai moltissimo! 🙂

    • Chalk & Cheese ha detto:

      Alcuni tedeschi che ho conosciuto qua prima di lei sono proprio come si pensa. Infatti mi trovavo bene con lei, perchè di mentalità aperta. Pero appunto, non si puo fare nulla, spero come dici tu di trovare un’altra buon amica..

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